“I’m not a golddigger, I’m strong & independent. But,…”

In the intricate dance of modern relationships, the question of financial dynamics is one that often takes center stage. Let’s delve into the complexities of this narrative and explore the balance between financial independence and shared responsibilities.

[Note: This article is not intended to be a reference to all the girls but if it has hurt anyone’s feelings I am sorry for that.]

Real Men Pay For Dates

Today men want to go on dates with real feminists as they want equality and they pay half the bills but here lies their hypocrisy that they don’t split the bill on dates. On one hand, they want all the rights but don’t want to do the duties equally. In the dating scene, they want only to follow hypergamy and don’t want to demolish chivalry where they sit on a pedestal and men serve them. Men as second-class citizens are what they want even today.

Real Men Pay The Majority Of House Expenses

A guy can marry an illiterate girl and give all his salary to her to run the house but today’s feminists don’t want to marry a boy of lower stature than them or equal they want to follow hypergamy which makes them not any different from gold diggers then. Today Matrimony is a Market and A man is a product and a man is the product.

Real Men help pay my student loan

If the woman is a feminist and so-called strong & independent then why does she expect her husband or boyfriend to pay her student loan? Here lies the hypocrisy. When a man earns, he earns for the whole family but when a woman earns she earns for herself that’s the difference. The man on the one hand would like to give his family including children and wife or elders a good life fulfilling their needs before themselves but a woman is just the reverse. When she earns she spends all her money on herself enjoying and doing other things.

Real Men surprise me with gifts

Why do only men surprise her with gifts why not women do the same bow to propose etc etc? Is this not a gold-digger mentality? You must need to understand that there are 7 Types of Love Language but it’s different for a gold digger who is there with you just for the financial gains and you should be able to differentiate from it.

Real Men pay for travel

Just like paying for dates the payment for travels must be split as they both are traveling.

Real Men Raise Another Man’s Child

Why do the so-called strong and independent women can’t raise their children with another man on their own? Does she want a new boyfriend/husband or a helping hand to raise their kids? Why did someone else play someone else’s saved game? To understand these you must read the articles on single mothers listed below.

Also Read:
Life Cycle of a Single Mom
Single Mom Dating Profile Starter Pack
Why Men Avoid Single Mothers?

Real Men pay alimony and child support after divorce

If the woman earns more than a man then should she not pay child support or take care of her child herself? She must also give her husband alimony as he was a lower-status party in the relationship. Women leave men when men’s bad times come so forget about paying alimony and child support. In the dark times, even your shadow leaves your side. Modern Women Follow 6 6’s: The Girls See in a Guy Before Dating.