Why Men Avoid Single Mothers?

I have a bunch of articles on single mothers but I was missing the basic one, which is at first, why men avoid or should avoid single mothers.

Never available/You are not a priority/Emotionally unavailable/Carries baggage, baggage, and more baggage

A single mother doesn’t come into a relationship with a guy out of love but mostly they come in it as they need a helping hand raising their kids. She needs you to pay bills related to her house, electricity, food, etc to all the other school bills of her kids. As the kids are always her priority they are her life but you are not important to her. So, why play someone else’s saved game? She must love you too. She is never available for you neither physically nor emotionally.

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Solipsism (Her feelings are her reality)/Thinks the world revolves around her and her only

The idea of solipsism holds that the only thing that can be known to exist is one’s own mind or awareness and that everything else, including other people’s minds, may be nothing more than an illusion created by that mind. To put it another way, it is the conviction that only one’s own mind is guaranteed to exist and that everything else is speculative or even hypothetical.

So, in the case of solipsism, the other person’s feelings are non-existent, but her feelings are her reality. According to her, the other person’s feelings are illusions created in their mind or speculative and hypothetical. She thinks that the world(others) revolves around her.

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The ex/baby daddy is always there/In most cases, she’s dating to make her baby daddy jealous/Dishonest – a single mother is a liar

The ex or the baby daddy will always be there as they are his kids which will make you uncomfortable. He will see where her ex is and there is a high chance that she may go back to him. She may blackmail you showing she has options. She may cheat you with him.

The kids are working against you/Those kids will h*te you

The kids will not like you as they are not yours and will plan ways to weed you out of their mom and their lives.

Also Read: Life Cycle of a Single Mom

Entitled attitude

An entitled attitude refers to a mindset or belief that one deserves special treatment, privileges, or resources without necessarily having earned or worked for them. People with an entitled attitude often have an inflated sense of their own importance and believe that the world owes them something simply because of their existence, status, or identity. This attitude can manifest in various aspects of life, such as relationships, work, or society in general.

Distorted self-image

A distorted self-image, also known as body dysmorphia or body dysmorphic disorder (BDD), is a psychological condition in which a person has a skewed perception of their own appearance. Individuals with a distorted self-image may obsessively focus on perceived flaws or defects in their physical appearance, even when these flaws are not noticeable to others or may not exist at all.

Always the victim

Jekyll & Hyde personality

The term “Jekyll and Hyde personality” is often used colloquially to describe a person who exhibits contrasting and extreme behaviors or characteristics, similar to the characters Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde from Robert Louis Stevenson’s novella “Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde.” In the story, Dr. Jekyll creates a potion that transforms him into the sinister and evil Mr. Hyde, representing the dark and hidden aspects of his personality.

Drama queen

The term “drama queen” is a colloquial expression used to describe a person who tends to exaggerate or overreact to situations, often seeking attention and sympathy from others. It is typically used to refer to someone who frequently creates or involves themselves in dramatic or emotionally charged situations.