I led a group for divorcing, divorced, and single fathers for about 10 years. Here’s what I saw over and over from more than a thousand men that came to our group for help; Also Read: Stages of A Dying Marriage/The Broken Marriage There is at least a 50% chance you will be divorced. The … Read more
My buddy works for the power company. Sometimes he is outside up on a ladder against a power pole at 3:00 AM with the wind blowing, it’s raining and it’s 30 degrees trying to reconnect power that if he touches it, will vaporize him in a split second. When there is a storm he works … Read more
Men’s liberation is a dirty word to those who want to continue to oppress men, like allowing the slaves to be released to live a life defined in their own right. These tyrants claim to have ownership over men and how masculinity is defined. Incumbents of this defined existence (males) are bound to enact a … Read more
Often people think being male has various perks, granted these perks only seem to matter to those with a high degree of neuroticism. Yet I can assure you as a child my life had very few perks in it. I was very tall for my age, 5’11 in elementary, or Primary as you may know, … Read more
In my travels, upon the internet, I have found stories that at times made me feel, horrid in essence. I shall share this story, and do so with one mistake in the story, think of this as a test, to see if you truly feel empathy or just social outrage. Also Read: Shemgelena ( ሽምግልና) … Read more
Gaslighting is a common form of abuse men face, an estimated 71% of abused men have questioned their own sanity, been lied to, and made to believe they are crazy. It is common for women to use this form of abuse specifically since it is done from the shadows, and naturally, women are risk adverts. … Read more
Throughout the ages, man has fought with itself, men of one tribe against men from another, in war, males seldom see compassion, even more so in the dark ages, and civil war onwards. Dark age warfare was very much iron, axe, and chainmail. Raids and pillaging, men were often killed outright or enslaved if they … Read more
Every October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month (DVAM) in the United States. Why has DV gotten even worse since implementing this awareness program two decades ago? Martin Luther King said it best, “You can’t fight lies with worse lies or fight hate with worse hate.” DVAM is pure hate and lies and thus makes the … Read more
Stages of A Dying Marriage: Marriage is a legally and socially sanctioned union, usually between a man & woman that is regulated by laws, rules, beliefs, customs, and attitudes that prescribe the rights and duties of the partners and accords status to their offspring (if any). The universality of marriage within different societies and cultures … Read more
Waste No Time Arguing What A Good Man Should Be: No individual is completely free. Both legally and socially, society imposes a multitude of restrictive “shoulds” on its members. The “shoulds”, developed over a long period, are a major vehicle for maintaining order. While they evolve and change, and sometimes allow for limited individual variation, … Read more