We have a lot of articles on single moms if you have not read them please do so. Single mom syndrome includes all the forms of negative tactics used by single mothers to make the image of a father in front of the child bad or put his father’s image in a negative light and use the child as bait to get child support and then say she is strong and independent and shows that she is raising the kids all by herself. The biggest crime done by single moms with this syndrome is keeping a loving father away from his children and making him look like a deadbeat in front of his children.
We support 50-50 shared parenting as a father is not a visitor for his children or an ATM for his ex-wife.
[Note: This article is not intended to be a reference to all the girls but if it has hurt anyone’s feelings I am sorry for that.]
CASH THE CHILD SUPPORT CHECK
As said the main source of income for these types of women is child support the first thing that they do is to cash the child support check. These types of women are mostly gold diggers. So, her main aim or goal is to be a single mother to a rich guy’s child.
DENY ALL ACCESS
Then they deny all access to the father to blackmail him. They manipulate, and gaslight children into making up fake stories about the father being an ab*ser, he did domestic vi*lence, and all. She cuts off all the calls and meetings of the children with his father. To conclude, She is a narcissists which feed on attention and admiration.
CALL FATHER A “DEADBEAT”
After all this, they label that father a deadbeat who pays the child support, lawyers, and other court costs being late on mortgage or rent and utilities and as a result, he has maxed his loans, his pantry is empty and his credit is ruined.
CLAIM THEY HAVE TO DO IT ALL BY THEMSELVES
Kids as they are children don’t care about child support, who was married to who, and why they don’t like each other.
Kids on the contrary care about who’s there for school drop-off/pickup, who makes them dinner, who they hear cheering from the stands, who stayed up till 3 am finishing their costume etc.
So, they claim that they have to do it all by themselves hiding all the information from the kids in the above DEADBEAT point.
THEN BEGIN ALIENATION
After all this, they start alienating the dad, making him an absent/deadbeat/abu*ive father and then she fills the vacant position with her new boyfriends to enjoy the child support with.
This process runs monthly as the child support check comes monthly but the gaslighting or manipulation is so high the kids start ha*ing their loving father who is working and sacrificing all things to pay the child support.
Also Read: Bill Manser was locked up for 5 years for overdue child support for a child that was not his
I am Vivek Singh owner and publisher of newsofx.com. I am a journalist by profession. I did my Bachelor’s in Journalism and Mass Communication from Amity University Jharkhand and my Master’s in the same from Central University of Jharkhand grabbing the gold medal.
I am a Men’s Rights Activist, International Men’s Day and World Day of the Boy Child India coordinator, and Global Media coordinator for both of these days.
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