People say to keep your professional and personal lives separate, but many times it’s not possible. We are human beings and not robots without feelings, whatever the reason might be for a breakup. Acting with your ex as a couple on screen is tough, including acting in romantic scenes together. This happened exactly with Madelyn Cline and Chase Stokes when they were acting in Outer Banks. They were in a relationship for about a year and broke up while the shooting was still ongoing. They both acted maturely and took accountablity of them coming into a relationship and parting ways like adults, not hampering their professional lives and the shoot. In an interview given to The Hollywood Reporter, the Outer Banks actress told that the post-breakup work on set was difficult. She said, “There were moments when it was difficult, absolutely, but once the dust kind of settled, we were able to just revert to the friendship that we always had. At some point, you look at each other, and you’re like, ‘Are you ready to stop being miserable? Because I’m ready.'” Below is a related article you must read:
How do women avoid accountability/responsibility? [Bingo]
You must have heard about the game Bingo; if not, you can read it here. Similarly, the 5 rows and the 5 columns can be filled with How do women avoid accountability/responsibility? As I write always women are children in an adult body; they don’t take accountability or responsibility; rather, they use the terms/techniques given below.
[Note: This article is not intended to be a reference to all the girls, but if it has hurt anyone’s feelings, I am sorry for that.]
Column B
“Men do it too”
Women use this quote often when they need to justify all the wrongs they do. They say that men do it too, but do two wrongs make a right? If this is the case, why don’t these women follow other risks men take to feed their families or show positive masculinity by risking their lives as firefighters, soldiers, coal miners, etc.? For every male criminal, there are thousands of male heroes, but these women are cr*minals, so they talk about cr*me. It’s so hypocritical that men’s masculinity is toxic for feminists, but if it benefits them directly or indirectly, then it isn’t. For them, feminism is required only when it benefits them.
“You must have a little d*ck.”
This is called an ad hominem a**ack, as instead of talking about the main topic/argument/question for which they are responsible, they attack the person who is telling them they are accountable or responsible. Disagreeing is not an issue, but being disagreeable is; as in this case, the opposite party has no valid or factual points to counter the other party members’ argument.
The goal of the speaker who uses this type of a**ack is to avoid the conversation about the real issues, about evidence, about legitimate problems or questions, by trying to make the other person look bad. The main agenda or goal of this fallacy is that if you undermine the credibility of a person, the issue the other person brought up isn’t relevant anymore. It’s like the character assassination of a person, which we saw in many cases in the MeToo movement, where many allegations were false without any evidence.
“I’m a woman first”
Will the truth change after you know the person’s gender who committed a cr*me? No, but for women, they support any woman even if they are wrong just because the criminal who committed the crime is a female/woman (and then they can’t define what a woman is.)
“PCOS”
Women blame their accountability or responsibility on something whose exact cause is unknown. Po**cystic o**ry s**drome (PCOS) is one of them.
“Body count doesn’t matter”
In today’s world, finding a v*rg*n girl is nearly impossible, but it’s okay if you find a girl with a body count of less than 5, and body count does matter. The bank doesn’t give a loan to a person with a bad credit score.
Must Read: “Her past doesn’t matter!!” Sure it does
Column I
“Women are the real v*ct*ms”
Women use this v*ct*m card often. They often keep it in their pockets, and whenever there is a proceeding against them, they swipe this card and say I am a v*ct*m and I am being tor*ured. The benefit of this drama card is has unlimited rewards without any accountability or responsibility. Also, if the card is expired, it can still be used.
“Move goalposts”
She, in the beginning, thinks that she will be a vi*gin, but as her body count increases, her goalposts change.
“Her body, her choice”
If she is pregnant and she thinks that it’s her body inside her belly before abo*tion then a guy can also say his money is his choice and is not liable to pay child support.
“Grown woman pressure”
“You’re an in*el”
Another ad hominem attack.
Column N
“He must have done something to her”
This is how villains are made when good boys are blamed for the things they didn’t do.
“We don’t know what she went through”
Another victim card phrase.
“Free!”
“He changed”
“Not all women”
Column G
“He’s just insecure”
“A woman’s past doesn’t matter”
“A real man would…”
Women define manhood in a they can use men. So, in this way, they are shifting the accountability or the responsibility to a man.
“He tricked me”
Must Read: Where are all the good men/Why I can’t find a good man? Starter Pack
“Ad hominem attack”
As explained above in detail, here are a few examples:
When someone says ab**tion is mu*der, instead of dealing with facts about ab**tion, you say you are u*ly, and your mother dresses you funny, and you are st*pid, if you are not, you wouldn’t even have said this.
Another example is:
Donald Trump’s businesses have filed for bankruptcy 6 times. Is that a reason for his current economic proposal being bad? The proposals should be viewed objectively.
Column O
“Postpartum depression”
“It’s hard being a woman”
“The gym doesn’t work”
They eat a lot, like a bucket or a vacuum cleaner, and don’t go to the gym properly with a routine, and then blame the gym to dodge accountability or responsibility.
“I was young”
“We choose the bear”
I am Vivek Singh owner and publisher of newsofx.com. I am a journalist by profession. I did my Bachelor’s in Journalism and Mass Communication from Amity University Jharkhand and my Master’s in the same from Central University of Jharkhand grabbing the gold medal.
I am a Men’s Rights Activist, International Men’s Day and World Day of the Boy Child India coordinator, and Global Media coordinator for both of these days.
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